Parrots are pushy!
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With few exceptions, a parrot needs and must have, a certain amount of your time and attention every day of it's life. Some of the smallest species, such as parakeets, can tolerate, for the most part, being left alone. Actually, most prefer it that way. However, this is not the case with the larger birds. The larger they are, the more of your time they will demand. This can range from an hour or so to several hours every day depending on size, species, and individual personality. When not given the one-on-one attention that they need, they will quickly lose the socialization they achieved as younger birds and will revert to the wild, developing behavior problems such as aggression, screaming, feather plucking, or even self mutilation. Their socialization has to be reinforced and built on every day. Parrots are not ones to forgive-and-forget. Once these behaviors start, they are extremely difficult to reverse and often require professional assistance. If you are going to own a parrot, you must make a commitment to plenty of one-on-one interaction with your bird EVERY day and honor that commitment.There are several types of interaction that a parrot will require from you on a daily basis.

The first is on a communal level. Parrots are flock animals and consider themselves to be a member of your family with equal standing to all present. They will demand to be out of the cage and included in family activities such as eatting, playing, and watching TV. Meals are going to be of particular interest because feeding time is a flock activity. When you sit down to dinner your parrot will expect to be at the table with you, or at least close by, and is going to expect a share of whatever you are eatting. After all, that's the way it works in a flock.

The second type of interaction your parrot requires relates to dominance. In the wild, "pecking-order" is everything and there is a daily struggle for the "top branch" within the flock. This instinctive desire to be Number One does not go away just because the bird lives with humans. Remember, you are it's flock so who do you think your parrot is going to try to dominate? Right! It will be critical to the long-term success of you relationship that your bird be reminded in a gentle but firm manner that you are in charge. There are a couple of simple steps and exercises to help you establish this rule. However, these exerises must be practiced daily because, when it comes to dominance, your parrot may let up but it will never give up.

A third type of interaction your bird will require is dedicated one-on-one time with you. If you are home during the day, this can be 5 minutes here, 10 minutes there. If you are only home in the evenings, this will need to be a minimum of 30 - 60 minutes with no distractions, the longer the better. Whichever, it must be every day.
This one-on-one time is critical, because it is the cement of your relationship with your bird. What is so important here is that you do not lavish attention on your new parrot when you first get it and then fade away as the newness wears off. Nothing will distroy your chances of a rewarding relationship with your new pet faster.
The fourth type of interaction is the only one that is optional, but it is also the most enjoyable. Everyone wants a parrot that talks or does tricks. You need to know that some birds talk, some don't. Some learn quicker then others. Some species are better then others, but it really depends on the individual bird. The only way you can be sure of a talking bird is to buy one that already talks. Even then, once in it's new surroundings, it just might quit! The only certainty is that if and when your bird learns to talk or do tricks, it will learn it from you. This means time from you every day for training and reinforcement.

Of course, all of the above can be combined into the same time period. The point is to make you aware that a parrot is going to demand a lot of your time. If you are not willing to make this commitment but you still want a bird, then buy a nice little parakeet or finch.

So you want to own a parrot?